Health Risks for Divorced Men
Health Risks for Divorced Men: How Relationships Improve Long-Term Wellbeing
Divorce is more than just the end of a relationship. Some men experience changes in their physical and mental health after separation or divorce. Research indicates that men in this situation often face less favourable health outcomes compared to those who are married.
But with the right support and reconnection, it is possible to restore emotional wellbeing and rebuild a fulfilling life.
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The Health Risks Facing Divorced and Separated Men
While every divorce is unique, studies reveal consistent patterns in how men are affected. Without the emotional support, companionship, and structure that long-term relationships provide, many men find themselves facing serious health challenges.
Increased Mortality Risk
One of the most confronting statistics is the higher risk of early death. Mortality rates among divorced men are up to 250% higher than those of married men. This is not just anecdotal. It is backed by decades of global health data.
Cardiovascular Health Concerns
Divorced men are more likely to experience:
- Heart disease
- Strokes
- High blood pressure (hypertension)
Stress, poor self-care, and a lack of regular health monitoring all contribute to these risks. Without a partner’s support, many men are less likely to attend medical check-ups or manage early warning signs.
Mental Health Decline
The emotional impact of separation often leads to:
- Depression, which is far more common among divorced men
- A significantly higher risk of suicide, with some studies showing up to eight times the risk compared to married men
- General anxiety and chronic stress, driven by lifestyle changes and identity loss
Substance Abuse and Unhealthy Coping
Some men turn to alcohol or drugs as a way to cope. Divorce is associated with an increased likelihood of substance abuse and other harmful behaviours, especially when emotional support networks are limited.
Increased Cancer Risk
Research indicates that divorced men may also face a higher risk of dying from cancer. This may be due to delays in seeking medical help or lower rates of preventative screenings.
Chronic Health Conditions
Separated men report more cases of:
- Chronic pain
- Fatigue
- Reduced immune function
- Difficulty managing day-to-day routines
These issues often develop or worsen due to unmanaged stress and limited motivation for self-care.
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The Health Toll of Loneliness and Isolation
Perhaps the most consistent and damaging consequence of divorce is loneliness. Some men lose not only their partner but also their closest emotional connection. Friends may drift, social invitations may decline, and a once-connected life can quickly become isolating.
Loneliness is now recognised as a major public health risk. It has been compared to smoking 15 cigarettes a day in terms of its impact. It is linked to:
- Heart disease
- Stroke
- Diabetes
- Cognitive decline
- Depression and anxiety
Loss of Identity and Purpose
Relationships often shape a man’s sense of self. When that ends, it can bring about a crisis of identity. Common thoughts include:
- Who am I now?
- What does my future look like?
- Can I find someone who truly understands me again?
Without clear answers or a pathway forward, many men withdraw or try to cope alone, which often worsens health and wellbeing.
Why Relationships Matter for Men’s Health
Being in a supportive, emotionally fulfilling relationship offers measurable benefits to men’s health. Married and partnered men generally live longer, experience fewer illnesses, and report a stronger sense of wellbeing.
A Healthy Relationship Encourages Healthy Habits
When men are in a secure and loving partnership, they are more likely to:
- Eat better and stay physically active
- Manage stress more effectively
- Seek timely medical care
- Maintain regular sleep patterns
- Feel emotionally grounded and supported
Rebuilding After Divorce Is Possible
At Hytch, we work with high-calibre, emotionally intelligent individuals who are ready to reconnect with someone genuine. If you have experienced the emotional and physical impacts of separation, there is a way forward.
Our tailored matchmaking services are private, respectful, and designed to support your journey toward real, lasting connection.
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Ready to Reconnect? HYTCH are Here to Help
Divorce is not the end of your story. Whether you have been single for months or years, finding love again can transform not only your emotional world but also your long-term health.
We are here to help you find someone who truly aligns with you, not just for now, but for the next chapter of your life.
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